"Why do I have to deal with my stuff? Why can't I just toss it aside, so I can help others?" That's a question that I have heard more...

There is an unspoken fear among addicts, and that is the unknown, more specifically, what will happen to me if I give this up? The fear...

Many addicts, including myself, would love to have a button or magic pill or something that instantly 'fixes' us, instantly heals us and...

The one narrative that comes up again and again in churches makes me so angry, I wonder if pastors really read and understand the bible....

I remember when my wife and I were fighting, and I mean fighting, about which direction we should be going in our healing. We had been...

One of the many mistakes addicts make during their sex addiction is the false belief that they can fix this alone, that they can end...

One of the men in my group was sharing that even though he was doing everything he could, even though he was making his calls, praying,...

I thought today that I would share an analogy I like to use when helping men understand what it means to be given's God's strength to...

I will forever be grateful to my SA fellowships here on Vancouver Island, in Nanaimo and Courtney. It is with them that I learned just...

If I'm a Christian, shouldn't I be immediately healed of all my sins? Shouldn't I be free? Why can't I stop doing all those things I...

I remember it very clearly. How could I forget? Sitting in Dr. Ted's office with my wife, on our tenth anniversary. The night before I...